The Lexicon

Shadow and obstacles

Attachment

Attachment is the grasping mind, the clinging that the Buddha named tanha, thirst, and set at the heart of the Second Noble Truth as the origin of suffering. It is the craving that wants experience to be other than it is, that seizes the pleasant, pushes away the unpleasant, and refuses the truth of impermanence. Not desire itself but the white-knuckled holding of it, attachment binds the one who grasps to the very turning wheel of dissatisfaction.

The path out is not cold withdrawal but the loosening of the grip, an open-handed relationship with a changing world. The Bhagavad Gita teaches action without attachment to its fruits; the nondual stream teaches detachment as freedom rather than indifference. To release attachment is to love without clutching, to act fully and let go of the outcome, and in that release the traditions promise a peace that no possession could secure. What is held loosely, they say, can finally be enjoyed.
The thought, "I want to be free" is itself free. This thought will take you to freedom.
You have a right to your actions, but never to your actions' fruits.
Attachment is the great fabricator of illusions; reality can be attained only by someone who is detached.