Inquiry · “You Are Not Your Thoughts”
Discernment of Spirits
To notice, name, and rightly interpret the inner movements of consolation and desolation, so that one reads one’s own emotional life as data and makes decisions from clarity rather than from a low or agitated state.
Discernment in practice: Learn the two movements — consolation (toward faith, hope, love, peace, life) and desolation (toward darkness, turmoil, withdrawal, drained faith). Through the day, notice and name which you’re in. The golden rule: never make a major change in desolation — hold the course set in calmer times. Act against the downward pull (do a little more, not less). Remember desolation passes; stock up strength in consolation. Trace any movement to its end before trusting it. If the “desolation” is persistent and disabling, that’s a doctor’s job, not a rule’s.
What it is
Discernment of spirits is Ignatius of Loyola’s method for reading your inner movements — the shifting currents of feeling, mood, energy, and pull — and interpreting what they’re telling you, so you can act from clarity instead of being jerked around by them.
Ignatius gave two key categories: consolation (movements toward faith, hope, love, peace, an increase of life and outward orientation) and desolation (movements toward darkness, turmoil, restlessness, isolation, and a draining of faith, hope, and love).
The practice is to notice these movements (The Inner Creates the Outer), name them, and respond to them by rule — most famously: never make a major change while in desolation. In Ignatius’s own theological frame, consolation is the work of the “good spirit” and desolation the work of the “enemy”; stripped of that frame, it is a disciplined practice of using your emotional states as information (The Inner Creates the Outer) and protecting your decisions from your moods.
It belongs in the inquiry/shadow family because it is fundamentally an honest, repeated self-examination of inner states (The Inner Creates the Outer).
The Method
Ignatius set out fourteen “Rules for the Discernment of Spirits” for the First Week (SE 313–327), plus a more advanced set for the Second Week. The doable core:
- Define the two movements (SE 316–317). Consolation (SE 316): an interior movement that inflames the soul with love, brings tears, faith, hope, charity, and “every increase of hope, faith, and charity, and all interior joy” — a quieting, drawing-toward-the-good peace. Desolation (SE 317): “darkness of soul, turmoil of spirit, inclination to what is low and earthly, restlessness… want of faith, want of hope, want of love” — the opposite movement, leaving one listless, sad, and separated.
- Notice and name which one you’re in. Throughout the day (this is where it meets the Examen), catch the movement: Am I being drawn toward life, or toward drift and despair? Naming it accurately is half the work.
- Rule 5 — never change a decision in desolation (SE 318). Ignatius’s pivotal practical rule: “In time of desolation we should never make any change, but remain firm and constant in the resolutions and decision which guided us the day before the desolation, or in the decision to which we adhered in the preceding consolation.” The reasoning: in desolation we are being counselled by the bad spirit, and “following his counsels we can never find the way to a right decision.” So: hold your course; postpone big calls until the storm passes. 4. Act against desolation, don’t obey it (SE 319 — agere contra). Desolation tempts you to do less — to drop prayer, withdraw, give up. Ignatius says do the opposite: intensify, not slacken. Add a little more prayer, examination, or penance; push gently against the pull.
- In desolation, be patient and remember it passes (SE 320–321). Desolation is temporary. Recall that consolation will return; don’t take the desolate state as the truth about your life.
- In consolation, store up strength and stay humble (SE 323–324). Use good times to lay in reserves for the lean ones, and don’t let consolation make you presumptuous — because desolation will come again.
- Examine the trajectory of a movement, not just its surface (Second Week rules). Ignatius warns that the enemy can disguise itself as an “angel of light” — a movement that begins good but, traced to its end, leads downward. So judge a movement by where it tends, beginning to end. (Sourcing note: the consolation/desolation definitions and Rule 5 are direct short quotations from SE 316–318; the agere contra, patience, and “angel of light” rules are faithful paraphrase of SE 319–334. Step numbering here is for usability, not Ignatius’s own.)
Source & Lineage
Ignatius of Loyola (1491–1556), founder of the Jesuits, drew the discernment rules from his own convalescent self-observation — noticing that daydreams of worldly glory left him dry, while imagining a life of service left him lastingly joyful — and codified them in The Spiritual Exercises (~1548, SE 313–336). → (Ignatius of Loyola).
Discernment is the interpretive backbone that makes the rest of the Exercises work: the feelings stirred by contemplation (composition of place) and surfaced in the Examen are read using these rules. The tradition has elaborated them extensively (notably Jesuit author Timothy Gallagher’s modern commentaries, the Office of Ignatian Spirituality, The Jesuit Post).
The Traditions' versions
Stoic “is it up to me?” / pause before reacting — examine the impression before assenting; don’t be governed by the raw feeling.
- CBT / DBT — don’t act on emotion mind; check the facts — the clinical version of “don’t decide in desolation”: recognize distorted, distressed states and defer high-stakes action until regulated.
- “Sleep on it” / cooling-off rules — folk and behavioural-economics wisdom that decisions made in acute affect are unreliable.
- Affect-as-information (psychology) — emotions carry information about your situation; the skill is reading them without being ruled by them.
- Buddhist noting practice — labelling arising mind-states (“aversion,” “restlessness”) to see them as passing weather, not commands.
- IFS / parts work — noticing which inner “part” is driving and not letting a reactive part make the call.
Common refinements
Deciding anyway while desolate. The cardinal error Rule 5 exists to prevent. If you’re in turmoil, hold; revisit the decision when you’re steady.
- Obeying desolation’s “do less.” Withdrawing, quitting, and isolating feel right in desolation and are usually wrong — agere contra: do a little more, not less.
- Mistaking every bad feeling for desolation (or every good feeling for consolation). Ignatius’s “angel of light” rule warns: trace a movement to its end. A pleasant pull that leads you downward isn’t true consolation; a hard, clarifying feeling can be.
- Treating clinical depression as spiritual desolation. A persistent, pervasive low state with loss of function may be a mood disorder needing treatment — discernment is not therapy.
- Tracking without acting. Naming the state is step one; the rules tell you what to do about it. Don’t stop at observation.
- Going it alone on big calls. Ignatius assumed a spiritual director; for major decisions, an outside perspective guards against self-deception.